Sunday 23 June 2013

“I’ve had sex with 370 men” says British-Nigerian woman Seyi Kolade


Approaching a man at a bar, Seyi Kolade had only one thing on her mind as she chatted with the stranger - sex. Within hours the pair were in bed together and she was delighted at how her evening had panned out.

And this was not a chance encounter, for Seyi was a sex addict and it was what she did almost every day for 13 years. Last night she said: “Sex addiction took hold of my life.”

Seyi, 35, was just 17 when she became dependent on sleeping with men. By 19 she'd had 40 partners and she says she has bedded a shocking total of 370 men.

Her dangerous addiction led her to a life of destruction - catching sexually transmitted infections, being evicted from her home and having two terminations.



Seyi Kolade has been celibate since 2009

By the age of 30, Seyi had hit rock bottom and needed help. Today, after attending numerous sex addiction meetings and 12-step programmes, Seyi has been celibate for four years and is helping others like her.
She explains says: “Sex addiction is something people associate with men, but it took hold of my life for more than 13 years.
“It was a craving and a fear of how I’d feel if I couldn’t get it.
“Once I did, it was a huge relief, like a weight was lifted.
“It’s like any addiction. It made me selfish, self-destructive and depressed but it was a cycle I couldn’t escape.”
She adds: “I lost my virginity when I was 13 with my first boyfriend.
“I was shocked when I fell pregnant. I gave birth when I was 14. It was a very difficult time.”
Social services arranged a nanny to look after her daughter, Sarah, from six weeks old.

Being a young mum scarred Seyi’s childhood. She says: “I moved out of home when I was 16 with Sarah and lived in a mother and baby unit. I felt terribly lonely. I craved affection, I was miserable.”

Wesley Warren whose testicles weighed 10st is unhappy after the removal.


A man with 10st testicles is unhappy after the removal which left him with a tiny penis. After a 13-hour procedure to remove his swollen scrotum which grew so huge he had to wear a hoodie top as trousers to support the load Wesley Warren is sad about the result.

 
Wesley Warren Jr's operation to remove his ten-stone testicles has left him hopeful that he will find love one day
Wesley Warren Jr's operation to remove his ten-stone testicles has left him hopeful that he will find love one day
His penis was buried so deeply within his groin that he had to urinate on himself instead of going to the toilet normally and could not enjoy a fulfilling sex life.
Now, Mr Warren, from Las Vegas, says a romantic relationship could help him be happy again.
'I cannot express how ecstatic I’m feeling about the future,' he told the Sunday Mirror.
'And if some way somehow or another I can stumble upon love – any kind of love – I think I will finally be happy.
'I’m very thankful that I’ve been given my life back.'

Mr Warren could only sit down with a milk crate between his legs after his scrotum swelled up, and said he missed simple everyday activities, such as going to the supermarket and post office.

He had accidentally squashed his testicles getting out of bed, but antibiotics failed to make them return to their normal size.
Doctors diagnosed him with scrotal lymphoedema, a severe build-up of fluid.
The extremely rare condition is much more common in Africa and south-east Asia, where it is caused by parasites, than it is in the western world. 
Mr Warren was so desperate to escape the 'freak show' his life became that he considered auctioning his enormous testicle sac on eBay to raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for complicated surgery.

Friday 21 June 2013