Sunday 23 June 2013

“I’ve had sex with 370 men” says British-Nigerian woman Seyi Kolade


Approaching a man at a bar, Seyi Kolade had only one thing on her mind as she chatted with the stranger - sex. Within hours the pair were in bed together and she was delighted at how her evening had panned out.

And this was not a chance encounter, for Seyi was a sex addict and it was what she did almost every day for 13 years. Last night she said: “Sex addiction took hold of my life.”

Seyi, 35, was just 17 when she became dependent on sleeping with men. By 19 she'd had 40 partners and she says she has bedded a shocking total of 370 men.

Her dangerous addiction led her to a life of destruction - catching sexually transmitted infections, being evicted from her home and having two terminations.



Seyi Kolade has been celibate since 2009

By the age of 30, Seyi had hit rock bottom and needed help. Today, after attending numerous sex addiction meetings and 12-step programmes, Seyi has been celibate for four years and is helping others like her.
She explains says: “Sex addiction is something people associate with men, but it took hold of my life for more than 13 years.
“It was a craving and a fear of how I’d feel if I couldn’t get it.
“Once I did, it was a huge relief, like a weight was lifted.
“It’s like any addiction. It made me selfish, self-destructive and depressed but it was a cycle I couldn’t escape.”
She adds: “I lost my virginity when I was 13 with my first boyfriend.
“I was shocked when I fell pregnant. I gave birth when I was 14. It was a very difficult time.”
Social services arranged a nanny to look after her daughter, Sarah, from six weeks old.

Being a young mum scarred Seyi’s childhood. She says: “I moved out of home when I was 16 with Sarah and lived in a mother and baby unit. I felt terribly lonely. I craved affection, I was miserable.”

Wesley Warren whose testicles weighed 10st is unhappy after the removal.


A man with 10st testicles is unhappy after the removal which left him with a tiny penis. After a 13-hour procedure to remove his swollen scrotum which grew so huge he had to wear a hoodie top as trousers to support the load Wesley Warren is sad about the result.

 
Wesley Warren Jr's operation to remove his ten-stone testicles has left him hopeful that he will find love one day
Wesley Warren Jr's operation to remove his ten-stone testicles has left him hopeful that he will find love one day
His penis was buried so deeply within his groin that he had to urinate on himself instead of going to the toilet normally and could not enjoy a fulfilling sex life.
Now, Mr Warren, from Las Vegas, says a romantic relationship could help him be happy again.
'I cannot express how ecstatic I’m feeling about the future,' he told the Sunday Mirror.
'And if some way somehow or another I can stumble upon love – any kind of love – I think I will finally be happy.
'I’m very thankful that I’ve been given my life back.'

Mr Warren could only sit down with a milk crate between his legs after his scrotum swelled up, and said he missed simple everyday activities, such as going to the supermarket and post office.

He had accidentally squashed his testicles getting out of bed, but antibiotics failed to make them return to their normal size.
Doctors diagnosed him with scrotal lymphoedema, a severe build-up of fluid.
The extremely rare condition is much more common in Africa and south-east Asia, where it is caused by parasites, than it is in the western world. 
Mr Warren was so desperate to escape the 'freak show' his life became that he considered auctioning his enormous testicle sac on eBay to raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for complicated surgery.

Friday 21 June 2013

Sunday 11 November 2012

Mr Ideal Nigeria CEO Ayotunde Fabamwo on Morning Ride


An interview with the CEO of Mr Ideal Nigeria Mr Ayotunde Fabamwo on Morning Ride. We need more young entrepreneurs in Nigeria. If you do want to enter the competition for your state  please go to www.mridealnigeria.com.   Be inspired.

Friday 7 September 2012

Suggestion

Hello everyone,

I'm so overwhelmed with messages sent to my in box, I know its been a while and I thank you all for your messages and kind words. To cut the story short one of my friends suggested since I would be getting married soon, I should share my daily experience as the day draws nearer. 

I hope this will interest you guys. Please comment as your comments mean so much to me. #KISSES

Let the count down begin.

140 DAYS TO GO.

Tuesday 24 July 2012

Beyonce's super fan............


As one of Beyonce's super fan, i'm sharing this amazing video from another super fan. Please watch....this is so creative........#kisses

16-year-old Pennsylvanian Ton Do-Nguyen shot, edited and starred in a mind-bogglingly accurate remake of Beyoncé's "Countdown" video, throwing in his own LOL-worthy touch--a Snuggie! Working that Snuggie like Sasha at her Fiercest, Nguyen recreated the video's dance moves, color washes and moving frames, right down to the singer's facial expressions and of course, baby bump! But best of all, Beyonce gave a shout out to Nguyen,  posting the video on her personal Tumblr and wrote, "Brilliant. I Think he did this video better than I did :)."

Gosh I love

Thursday 19 July 2012

Everybody dies but not everybody lives

Going through my mails, someone sent me this note and asked me to share, so here it is.................

Everybody dies but not everybody lives. Obiola you lived. Though it was short but then your life (living) wasn’t in vain. I remember Bowen days back  is SADLER Hall– the Barrister was your roomie and you poked fun at moi mildly bout moi hitling on another guy’s chic. Femi did refer to you as the gentle giant, I like to think of you as the Man amongst boys. You were the reason – most of your friends (clic) could finish from Bowen. Not that you paid their fee (at least not to my knowledge) but you were the voice of caution. The one that preached moderation. Your level of cool way out of this world. There was just one rule in Bowen and that was “thou shall not get caught” and I like to say you understood this rule too well and it rubbed off on other Bacosa members. You did make your mark, you took people for who they were on an encounter basis, you would still be friends with anybody, no matter the argument. You touched lives differently, I can’t help but think bout what would be said of me after am gone. This brings me to coining out my personal vision and mission statements. You life wasn’t in vain and I hope your death wouldn’t be, I do not vow but I promise “to not live less than a man and never to be a party to mediocrity, I promise that when my opportunity comes to effect changes on how things are done in this country,  like Dora Akunyuli(when she was newly appointed Nafdac Boss) it won’t be business as usual, I would do my best possible to leave indelible marks on the sands of time”. Your favorite phrase “guy, how far now…bake bread now” is remembered by all,I guess its the heavenlies turn to bake bread with you.