Sunday, 1 July 2012

MY THOUGHTS ON LIFE!!!!!!!! LIVE DON'T JUST EXIST....



Wow, it is the beginning of the second half of the year; I just moved house and most of you would notice that I have not updated my blog recently. I have just been thinking and I have recently thought about what life is all about and I have decided to share my thoughts with my readers. What is life? Why are we here?  Why do things happen? What would people say about me when I’m gone?  Mind you I’m only 26 years. I’m just 26 years does not mean I’m too young to die; I only live by God’s Grace. Last month I was shaken by the tragedy that struck Nigeria, The Dana air plane crush. This tragedy affected many people one way or the other; I had someone on that flight that went to the same university I attended and another person who was to resume September for his final year at the same university. I have friends whose uncle died in that crush and others whose Pastor was on that plane. 

There was a particular girl on that flight, Irene she was just 21years, people wrote about her on facebook, also a vigil was done in her honour at GVC in Nottingham. People wrote so many nice and lovely things about her, how she went to a charity in Ghana and helped the orphans, how she helped to pay someone’s school and living expenses. I don’t know her but at just 21 years that was a great accomplishment; she automatically became an inspiration to me.  I thought to myself “If anything happens to me today what would people say about me” Do I really have friends that would say nice things about me?  Have I done anything nice to anyone? Am I living or just existing?  What about charity? Do I do anything for charity? What are my achievements? Have I touched anyone’s life in my 26 years of existence?  It made me sad because I don’t have answers to most of the questions I asked myself.


The other day, I wrote one my BB what is life really about?  Do I do things to please people or do I please myself.  Why do I work for an organisation? Why not start my own business? Why are things in a certain way, why can’t they be in the other way?  Then someone suggested a particular book. But I don’t believe the book was the answer, it is about thinking and asking God to show or direct me to my purpose in Life. I have been inspired by so many people, I have watched so many inspirational movies and read so many inspirational books but after all these, there are still questions unanswered.  
I started blogging about three months ago and it had been something I have wanted to do for a very long time because I love keeping up with current affairs especially celebrity and gossip columns. For the past few weeks, the energy wasn’t there anymore to do it, and I thought to myself instead to investing my precious time on gossip and celebrity columns, why not think of other things like inspiring people, thinking of what I can invest in or how to start my own business (which by God’s Grace it would be sooner than I anticipated).
I just want to tell people that there is more to life than work, family and friends.  We need to just take it slow sometimes and think of what we want and what will make us happy.  We need to live a meaningful life and to achieve that we need to ask God for direction and guidance. Do not live on regrets, apologize when wrong and above all do things for others in need.
Just last week  Nora Ephron died,  she was an award winning screen-writer  whose credit include “When Harry met Sally” and “Sleeplessness in Seattle” which are one of the best movies I have ever watched.  I read an extract from one of her books, MY 21 TIPS FOR LIFE
My 21 tips for life
The whole point of this letter is to inspire myself and others reading my blog. Make your law and stick by it, get a journal write about your day, it releases stress and tension. Pour your heart out to someone who cares, it’s good for the brain and body. Most importantly be happy, aspire, share, forgive, repent, help, be inspirational, achieve, travel the world, draw closer to your creator, live and not just exist, be prayerful because prayer is the MASTER KEY.
Life is a journey, it is precious, It’s not ours, we are only privilege to have it. I want to live life and reach out to people on this journey, love myself because if I don’t, no one will.
HAPPY NEW MONTH.
I’m not a good writer but I try.

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